From this point of view, the women’s safety needs the joint efforts of all parties. The legislative department should constantly improve the relevant laws, the police should constantly handle the case at night in the process of handling the case, increase the training of gender awareness, the relevant responsible parties should take the initiative to bear the safety responsibility, and the media should break the thinking of "weakening women", the bystanders should stop being indifferent and actively involved, and do a good job in gender education.Education of girls, not necessarily be liked, not necessarily obedient, clever. The cases of victimization known to the public are only the tip of the iceberg. Many abused women remain silent, submit to "good feeling" and take into account the feelings of those who hurt themselves. Too many girls spend time trying to be friendly with those who hurt themselves. But more importantly, it is the ideological education for male groups, learning to respect women.
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Recently, “Li Xincao" incident has aroused great concern of the whole Chinese society. Li Xincao, a sophomore at Kunming University of science and technology, drowned in the middle of the night due to drunkenness and lead to suicide, according to a netizen named "Li Xincao's mother”,in a weibo posting, the violence and obscene behavior against to her daughter in the bar before the incident in the surveillance video made it difficult for her mother to accept the official Notice of the police, and the place was only 10 meters away from the water. The case is foggy and its mother is suffering from unimaginable psychological torture.No matter what the truth of this case is, from the perspective of the intensity of participation in the discussion in the society, female groups are always suffering from security threats due to the relatively weak body,.The resulting cases have become the topic of public discussion, and women’s safety has become one of the focuses that the society has to pay attention to.
At the same time, it is sad that in all kinds of female victims, half of the public judge the victims. When a woman is harassed, the first response is whether she is dressed neatly or exposed. When a woman is subjected to domestic violence, it is to blame her for not self-improvement. when a woman is raped.,ti is to blame her for not respecting herself. One by one, the naked and bloody comments are thought-provoking, too much hostility to women but contrary to escape the accusation for the men who commit crimes. What kind of absurd talk is this? It's a common weak thinking to blame the victim. Subconsciously, that people think "the victim is different from me, so I won't suffer!" However, the unpredictable crime always comes quietly, everyone has the possibility of being hurt. When the idea of blaming the victim appears, it is not shameful, but the blame is the secondary injury to the victim, and the intensity of the injury is real. So when you realize that, please try to change this idea. The next time you face the victim, the question "why the victim is you and what did you do" appears in your mind, please don't say it and tell her loudly “it's not your fault “!
In the "China Women's Safety Report", we collected the exposed incidents of violence against women in the past, whether in the daytime or at night, whether traveling alone or in companionship, with the same probability of occurrence. Among all women's safety issues, there were few follow-up reports, fewer incidents offering positive suggestions, and little mention of responsibility in perpetrators.The fact that woman suffered violence is often different from that reported by the media, which makes the public in a vague state and the responsible perpetrators in a invisible state.
In recent years, women's safety incidents have repeatedly become a hot topic of public opinion. “Yueqing girls were killed in the windmill”, "Dalian women were beaten up in the street in the middle of the night”, and a series of incidents were women's unprovoked injuries. Not only the vicious injuries happened nearby, but also “the real names of female teachers reported the sexual assault cases of leaders of Xi'an Academy of Sciences”, “the well-known hosts were exposed to be sexually harassed female interns” and “well-known entrepreneurs suspected”, A series of phenomena, such as sexual assault cases, abnormal men secretly photographing women's skirts and other women being harassed, secretly photographed and tracked, are telling us the seriousness of women's security issues, and the public should strengthen their sensitivity and attention to women's safety issues.
At the same time, life is full of crisis, everyone should always be vigilant, more awareness of prevention, improve their own awareness of protection and measures.,and working together to pay attention to and change women's safety issues.
